3 golden stages to teach children before the age of 10

If they miss out on important educational stages for young children, many parents will surely feel regret.

There is a situation that many people must have witnessed. A child while playing, suddenly pees on his pants. The mother standing next to her did not help her child but scolded. Many people around commented, this sister responded: "I am teaching my children, what does that have to do with you".

Eyewitnesses will feel they are sad for the mother's behavior and love the baby. "Surely these insults will linger in her memory for a long time," they said.

 

Professor Li Mai Can, a famous Chinese psychologist and parenting expert. Photo: qq

Professor Li Mai Can, a specialist in criminal psychology and parenting, People's Police University of China once said: "Parents are only valid for 10 years. Once the educational opportunity expires. , it will become a child's lifelong regret."

According to this professor, many parents still think they have a lot of time to accompany and educate their children, but do not know that the child will grow up gradually away from the parents. At that time, many educational opportunities were missed.

Just like the girl above, it is normal to pee on the pants due to the desire to have fun, it is also a feature of the age when children have not yet controlled their bowels and bladder. The mother's scolding and killing will hurt the child's self-esteem. When they grow up, they will be timid and lose confidence in themselves.

Professor Ly Mai Can advises parents to grasp the following three valuable times to educate their children.

0-3 years old: Create a sense of security for children

Early education determines a child's life. Just like building a high-rise building, the stronger the foundation, the higher it can be built. Therefore, parents should give their children a sense of security during this time.

3-6 years old teach children with words and deeds

Before the age of 6 is an important period for personality development. At this point, most of the habits and attitudes needed in life have already formed. If raised and educated well during this period, the child will be a good element of society.

3-6 years old is an important period to form a child's personality and habits, the words and actions of parents at this stage have a great influence on children. If parents have good habits, children will also have good habits, if parents are lazy and swear, their children will become copies.

"However, parents should not use a rigid method to educate all children, but must depend on the child's character," Ms. Lee said.

6-10 years old: Give children respect

When entering primary school, many children tend to get bored of studying. This time also witnessed the scene of many parents teaching their children to beat and curse. However, this method of education certainly does not make children better, but will make them passive and slow.

In fact, at this stage, children are gradually growing up, so their perception also changes, they have more ideas. Therefore, parents should give their children more respect and let them boldly express their opinions.